Disability and uality - personal care attendants?

There are people who facilitate between clients and for clients. That is where I would stop as a professional. I see absolutely nothing wrong with helping him do what he wants to do. I would draw the line at him interacting with you or you displaying for him while being paid. I would make the two situations separate. There are millions of husbands and wives that are their spouses PAs. There is nothing inherently contradictory in being a ual partner and a PA except when it come to payment. So come see him on a different day as a ual partner - and don't receive any pay for that time period.